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“We transform ordinary humans into extraordinary leaders.” 

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## [Gently Confronting a Low Performer - a Letter](https://bestboss.biz/blog/gently-confronting-a-low-performer-a-letter)

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A few years ago I had occasion to write the following letter to someone not performing the work they...

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## [Beyond Victimhood to Empowerment](https://bestboss.biz/blog/beyond-victimhood-to-empowerment)

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A key part of the Best Boss Leadership Framework is a mental fitness training regimen called Positiv...

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## [What to Expect of a Manager](https://bestboss.biz/blog/what-to-expect-of-a-manager)

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Look at the job description for almost any manager in your organization. You will probably find a li...

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## [Goldsmith Journaling for a Better Life](https://bestboss.biz/blog/goldsmith-journaling-for-a-better-life)

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 8-Sep-2023

One of the most powerful ways to grow yourself is via journaling. It helps you to self-reflect, to s...

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## [Handling Toxic Politics at Work](https://bestboss.biz/blog/handling-toxic-politics-at-work)

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 29-Aug-2023

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## [Goal Setting for CEOs – beyond SMART and HARD](https://bestboss.biz/blog/goal-setting-for-ceos-beyond-smart-and-hard)

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One of the CEO’s deliverables is creating a Culture. One way to strongly influence that culture is b...

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## [Why Top Communicators Never Say "Biweekly"](https://bestboss.biz/blog/why-top-communicators-never-say-biweekly)

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My client was making an accountable commitment -- to me, but really to himself. He pledged to "publi...

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## [How to Use Assumptive Goal Setting](https://bestboss.biz/blog/assumptive-goal-setting)

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Setting good goals is awesome — it can energize you and your team to achieve great things.

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