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## [Speaking with Authority](https://bestboss.biz/blog/speaking-with-authority)

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Does one of your subordinate managers need to grow their ability to speak authoritatively? Share thi...

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## [Sleep and its Lessons](https://bestboss.biz/blog/sleep-and-its-lessons)

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## [Thoughts After Beating Myself Up](https://bestboss.biz/blog/thoughts-after-beating-myself-up)

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## [Why Leaders Exercise](https://bestboss.biz/blog/tol/2009/11/23/why-leaders-exercise)

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A trait often identified with strong leadership is physical fitness. Now comes additional evidence t...

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## [How to Make Your Team Resilient](https://bestboss.biz/blog/how-to-make-your-team-resilient)

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## [How to Reflect in a Daily Journal](https://bestboss.biz/blog/tol/2015/05/17/how-to-reflect-in-a-daily-journal)

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For the manager who wishes to become a Best Boss, there is no learning without reflection.

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## [Predict Better by Journaling](https://bestboss.biz/blog/tol/2014/07/09/predict-the-future-by-journaling)

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Experience is mandatory. Learning is optional.

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## [Keep a Thin Skin](https://bestboss.biz/blog/tol/2013/02/27/keep-a-thin-skin)

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Leaders shouldn’t be “thick skinned” — not if that means shrugging off negative feedback that might ...

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## [The Best Way to Listen to Complaints](https://bestboss.biz/blog/tol/2012/07/10/how-to-listen-to-complaints-as-a-ceo)

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